Eros is also prominent in their synastry. Thank you =). How fortunate we are to have such a wonderful body of info to help us! Do you see what I mean. Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive. She is deeply alluring and irresistible. Thanks! We all have Liliths plutonic quality in us, the unconscious energy that brings up harsh boundaries between life and death, ecstasy and suffering, passion and revulsion, enslavement and freedom. Youll have to use your judgement here. Hi I know somebody whose Moon conjuncts his Dejanira (30 minutes). Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? Because of where my Moon is at 2 56 Scorpio conjunct Pluto at 4 36 Scorpio in the 8th house the men around my age (Im 35);tend to have their Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto In my current relationship my boyfriend has Mars/Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto. I would say no, but I am not the last word in anything. Not eros. Eros contacts in synastry have been touted as creating attraction that cannot be denied. More about Synastry (relationship Astrology) Intermediate and advanced students of Astrology might enjoy our article, SoulMate . Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. DRACO CHARTS (DRACO-NATAL/ DRACO-SYNASTRY) Originally posted by kellyaroman What is a draco chart in astrology ? The nessus and deja conjunction is in Cancer. Lilith and Ceres conjunct in the synastry chart Your rebellious free spirit and nurturing sides are enmeshed. Ascendant opposite ascendant (1st house on the 7th house overlay). Juno aspecting the South Node simply means that the pair was married (in some way) in a past life, or had a longterm marriage-like relationship. Chiron conjunct sun. . Deja conj ASC may make for victimization as you fo through life, I am not able to do more. We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. Your words mean a lot to me! It takes me several hours so I could not do it here. You have such a sweet spirit. Well, maybe, but dont most abusers have a history of childhood abuse themselves? With asteroids, one must be an intrepid explorer because there is precious little PRACTICAL info out there. How about choose one aspect and I will try to help, T. Not to be rude, but this is incredibly fatalistic. I just want to let people know that things are not as clean cut and set in astrology as it is written sometimes because things that are presented as the only possible, likely truth will make people will fear astrology and the people around them if they look into isolated aspects from small asteroids and planets alike. This question would need me to see the whole chart because what I do is put it all together and come out with a practical answer. Hardly. Is there a positive aspect to this connection? hmm well I dont really have his birth time lol so I just went by the general aspects, so I can see what he does to my moon and where his planets fall in my houses but not vice versa. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. If you want to ask about 2 aspects, I will try to answer but an answer on the whole relationship needs an entire chart reading. Thank you, Kay <3 I'm really only just starting to get to know Eros well, and Lilith is still somewhat elusive. I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. Asteroids touching asteroids are not as powerful as asteroids touching persona; points on the chart such as the ASC, Moon, Sun, Venus etc. The flip side is that when it ends( and it usually does) you could go to jail for homicide. I get into this discussion a lot with people. I am new on this and finding all this information was revealing, so now I will stick to questions about my dejanira and nesuus. Lilith conjunct Ascendant My Fortuna conjuncts precisely his Dejanira and Moon. I know it is not funny but the charts will play out, in my experience, anyway. Any comments will help. His dejanira is conjunct with my sun. To me, it always is. I am curious about the dejanira/nessus aspects. If a mans Nessus conjuncts, your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars or North Node, he will abuse you, in my opinion. The chart is complex and one has to look at the entire chart to draw very global conclusions. To gather more about the flavor of the relationship, look to the actual aspect (is it favorable or difficult?) I should have replied to the previous post, as it was a continuation of the conversation we had started. Do these asteroids have to be conjunct planets or square each other to be dangerous? BUT my dejanira is conjunct with his sun by one degree and my dejanira is also in the same degree as my AC What does that mean? What conjuncts your Aura? I have some extreme aspects and I shudder to think how they would be expressed had I not had saturn at the top of my chart who keeps things in check via a grand trine involving some big bad planets. They have transcended Nessus conj Dejanira, which is a new situation for me to see. The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. I just found out my abusers Moon is 1 degree conjunct my Dejanira. my mars is there too though, trining his Scorpio pluto 0.25 we have physical heat but plenty of fighting. It is really rocking my world right now <3. The ex that abused me while I was pregnant had his Nessus conjunct my MC. You can gather the tone of the marriage based on the planets involved and the sign that theyre in. This vertex conjunction shows up again like in my previous relationship. I, always, have people want to tell me that Nessus is not always abuse. With mercury and Uranus in Scorpio. Who is whom? That mars/nessus of his is also square his moon/pluto. It will not heal anyone to tell them that they are wrong when they say that their relationship is healthy and happy even though they have an aspect that you think is destined to be unhealthy. Next, I have uncovered that in my Draconic Dejanira is 1 degree conjunct my natal Scorpio Moon. What do you think? My jupiter conjunct his sun and venus. Keep an eye on anyone who is near her. I dont do the Draconic. 2) I just started going out with a guy, we have good chemistry and just checked our natal charts and see we share amazing aspects except for my dejanira. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. The issue is telling people that are in healthy relationships or people that are around a couple in a healthy relationship, that those aspects will certainly play out no matter what. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? He has a strong nessus (conjunct with his sun + true node in cancer ). Maybe, maybe not. His sun/jupiter/neptune/venus are on my venus/saturn trouble spot in scorp. You are so welcome, Britt and thanks so much for telling me that you like it. I know this is an article for synastry, but Im a little worried about my natal chart after reading about Nessus and Dejanira. Thanks :), However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. Thanks for your help Amiann. I have found that when someone's personal planets make strong aspects to someone else's natal Eros, a strong sexual bond and attraction is indicated. Its not a square but there isnt much info out there on the conjunction. Any other aspect will show a wound through marriage, but the marriage wasnt necessarily involving both parties together. I am not surprised this happened to you. Most karmic astrology synastry reports dont take Chiron into account nearly enough. I dont want to assume that having Nessus conj BML means Im going to be abusive in sexual relationships. The Saturn person may kind of ride the back of the Mars person. I'm still not even sure if Eros/Lilith contacts are positive or negative? thank you again for being so welcoming, Thank you so much, Sovietlana! The lilith person knows exactly how they effect the ic and can really play with them over time. This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. 2) I just looked for the child asteroid and it is on 28 Capricorn, conjuct with my venus 1 Aquarius. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. It is desire, it is passion and love. And when you really think about it this line of thought deserve to be abused is quite sociopathic in nature. I think her NN is right on his 7th house axis for one. Most Astrologers dont tell things straight like I do. I can relate to everything Ive read from you. Please, keep me posted though but, yes, please, be careful, Love! I will come back and answer when I have time to really look at the details. Yes, their Moons are trine both in Earth signs. I hope I can do this in my articles. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. Copyright [the-year] [site-link] | This website is intended for entertainment purposes only. Also, I discovered that my daughter has Dejanira conjunct her 2H Virgo Moon(3 deg. "I want to welcome you to my website. We`ve known each other for a few months and generally it is a good relationship. Two celestial bodies are in conjunction when they are very close to each other, often in the same sign but never more than 8 degrees apart. Can my Fortuna have some healing effect? or is the bad guy Nessus only dangerous when in conjonction with Dejanira ? -Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). We have our arguments and I sometimes feel put down by him (and, to be fair, he feels the same way about me) and sometimes my self-esteem suffers. lol. Eros thrills, scares and creates intense bonds. These are too many questions for text. You made my day, Juice and Welcome! M. % would be more ambient but felt imo Maria dear. How will these aspects play out? Thank you for your comment. You can have Mars/Pluto with a fling and not feel a thing in your emotions.We have the same kind of weighting with the conjunction, trine, opposition and square as we did above. His Dejanira is in 25 Scorpio, conjunct my Part of Fortune in 27 Scorpio, opposite my Moon in 29 Taurus and Mars and Jupiter, in 0 Gemini. Sun person helps Lilith person recognize their subconscious gifts and strengths. The chart never lies, my Friend. Those interpretations CAN happen, but they are not destined to. There is also a near-exact conjunction of his north node to my Eros. Eros & Psyche in. YOU are the most important person to me. Great primal connection with fighting lol. His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. I am not asking you to do mine either. My Dejanira is square his venus (-0a) and conjunct his vertex (0s). orb). I always seem to have the opinion that these people are somewhat evil yet gullible and innocent and therefore they deserve to be abused. <3, Hi AmiAnn, do you have any thoughts on this? He may abuse her and it would be seen publicly. thanks, M. Super passion unlike few else. Theyre both devoted and kind people and Ive known her since we were teens. I have seen it in a few people, only. Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? Yes, that is a good way to put it. Sun sextile/trine/conjunct Moon is often found in marriage synastry charts. Further, there is such a thing such as free will. I remember the first time I discovered how to read a synastry chart; I worked with mine and my boyfriends for about 6 hours. It seems like the man of your childhood dreams walked out of the ether into your life like the larger than life heroes on the movie screens. About Nessus/BML, I would watch it. If anything, Ive suffered abuse from others at times. Moon oppose Pluto and Moon square Pluto could tend to be dark because they are powerful and not with a harmonious flow. Lovely, Lo! Posts: 376From: Western Massachusetts, USRegistered: May 2009. Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. You do not have to do their chart. I often am able to get away in time, and at other times I can get away only to a certain degree. Is this you? Why dont you come and put the chart up on my Forum? I am sorry. That doesnt mean youve never been married. or you consider just the closer orbit? I'm not typically the "make him suffer" type, but holy wow did it all come rushing out with him. Sydney, you are amazing. I guess ill post mine and then our synastry chart. That might be how theyre playing out their Nessus-Dejanira, though Im not sure since they also have a lot of mutual Uranus and Pluto contacts to inner planets and both Ascendants. What are your thoughts? A later relationship was abusive (a psychopath) His Nessus square my Sun Thats your opinion. It doesnt always make for the easiest of relationships, because both people come into the marriage with the weights of the past life issues, but it definitely has staying power. People tell me the same thing they tell me with Nessus. The chart allows one to see oneself. I am honored to have you as a valued member of my website family , Ivs, why dont you come put your chart in my Personal Readings Forum. I am one person with one persons experience, of course. Is it relevant? When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. Can it be dangerous amiann? I believe her Dejanira is conjunct his Nessus by one degree. Nessus conjuncts BML, and Dejanira conjuncts DSC and Pluto. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. Eros Synastry Aspects: The asteroid, Eros, represents erotic love, sex, passion and intimacy. You example above is only if a woman has Dejanira conjunct a mans ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. Any feedback on the roles being reversed? , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. Please post the charts. I also have Nessus in 22 Virgo exactly opposite my Sun, conjunct my Asc in 18 Virgo, and I am NOT an abuser, unless its in self defense.Either way, I dont enjoy hurting people. This can indicate marriage, but it can also indicate a long-term romantic or sexual relationship. This isn't always a bad thing, however. You, as the Pluto in the trine with his Sun and venus could kind of see through him lol, Thank you Amy for your reply We are both passionate, but luckily, by nature, not violent people thank God . My DEJA in home 6 in opposition to your NESUS in my house 12 to 10 degrees from my ascendant. Required fields are marked *. This ascendant descendant conjunction alone does a very interesting thing in the chart. Lastly, with me having moon conjunct neptune in my natal and venus in my 12th house, does that make me similar to venus in pisces xxx I ask because I attract men with mars in pisces and men who have pisces as a descendant/7th house , Hi Ami, Hi, There are millions of possible outcomes, and none should be claimed as the truth. Now, we come to things that could really make the relationship dark. And posting my charf sounds like fun, I just might . I would need to see more, Jenn! If they are conjunct in synastry, a soul mate connection is indicated. We are mesmerized, enchanted, and even obsessed with this person. This really highlights this magnetic quality to this conjunction and creates a situation where each individual holds the . . If an asteroid is conjunct an angle or a planet, placed in a prominent position, or stands out because of some other reason, it can provide an additional layer of insight in chart analysis. Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? The Nessus person brings abuse to the ASC/DSC person. When these relationships end, it is not pretty. Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! Composite: moon conjunct Neptune, Venus square Pluto, Black moon lilth conjunct Pluto square mars conjunct ceres..any explanations on this type of relationship would be very helpful!!?? what would result from this? I still talk to him to this day and I honestly will never forget how magnetic this relationship was. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. Are they married, Lo. We also have mars opposite pluto (Im pluto) in synastry. And my pluto trine his sun and venus..xxx, Mars sq Pluto can be violence and/or violent/strong passions. . You say that you want a nuclear passionate relationship. Moon/Pluto does not have to be dark sexual but if any planetary aspect would be, it would be this. (double-whammy..) The puzzle pieces are coming together for me.. finally. I have BML in my 1st house in Scorpio along with Venus and Saturn All are in conjunction with BML. Sometimes I nurture sometimes he does. Who does whom, so to speak? Moon conjunct Lilith EXACT Moon conjunct Destinn EXACT Venus square Mars EXACT This is not dark sexual, per se. Thank you a bunch for being so sweet Free~ I do agree that Ami is quite insightful, however I would like to chime in and say that I do not make every aspect positive I make every aspect neutral because the stars and planets are not going to tell you something is bad or make something bad. Would appreciate some insight!! Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. I have only had this fantasy with him along with begging him and many many other fantasies. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. If one person's Sun is conjunct Saturn and the other persons Eros is opposite Pluto, the contact will be quite different than if the Sun was conjunct Jupiter and Eros opposite Venus. Think sitting next to a roaring fire. In this video we will discuss the aspects between #Sun and #Eros in a synastry chart in Mix - Eros and Sun in Synastry! Sorry for the late reply. We talk about it often (3rd house moon overlay) its just a bit overwhelming sometimes like a sweet dream one moment, then an absolute nightmare. The conjunction is excact. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. My venus is conjunct someone's eros right now. Eros: Synastry Aspects . Do you have any advice for me? Lovely and very filled with passion! Asteroids and aspects do not control people. Thank you for your words. Theyre still deeply in love and their synastry and composite charts support it. Btw he just got married to a girl whose moon is conjunct with his nessus+sun+true node AND also, her dejanira is conjunct with his moon !!! So the theory doesnt check out. This would take a whole chart reading. There is NO way this will work out well, in my opinion. In fact, it is the opposite. Synastry When a person's natal moon forms a conjunction with someone's Eros, or vice versa, this can be a very sexualbut very intenserelationship. in case his vertex in my moon and ascendant *. I wonder what do you think it would happen when nessus conjuncts nessus in synastry. That is why I dont mince words. This transit is positive as well as painful, destructive and revelatory. Venus mars aspects I dont want people to get the wrong idea and then get scared over a small aspect. Yes, this is all very true but the charts exist outside of time, too. Is it a similar power to the conjunction? The opposition would be the same but not as locked in or as intense. That would be my guess. Yes, it would. How do we honor Lilith in our lives? Who would bring who abuse? Uranus is kink, so you do the math. Thanks for your posts Ami. My Sun and Mercury sandwich this conjunction by four and three degrees. woman s Dejanira and Juno, ( 445 and 432 Scorp ) both conjunct mans Eros and Chiron, (510 Scorp, 530 Scorp ) and both OPPOSITE mans Nessus (6 Taurus) Coming from a standpoint of being an archaeologist, we can interpret and theorize things ourselves all we want, but an archaeologist telling a crowd of people that their own interpretation of the past is the TRUTH would not only be incredibly wrong, but it would also be detrimental to people that no nothing about interpreting and analyzing archaeological sites, therefore they would take that persons word even though it is not truth. Even with a trine this 8th house effect enhances both the good and the bad ? It is real to be neutral. Yet despite this fearsome reputation she was often dismissed as " a minor Babylonian wind deity " or similar. That Pluto/DSC has been a source of confusion and frustration for me for a while, but now it makes sense. Does this mean anything? How would it play out if my boyfriends Dejanira is conjunct my venus/juno conjunction but my venus/juno is part of a grand trine with my midheaven and also my moon/Bella/mars/pluto conjunction? All this is square my Moon. But I did find out that her Amor conjuncts their Dejanira-Nessus conjunction, so her Dejanira is conjunct her Amor. Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. All of astrology is neutral. . Did you know I had one? the Moons will make for best friends. I have moon opposition pluto. I dont think you can draw the concrete conclusion you did from these aspects. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. I just got into astrology a month ago and find it fascinating. I've never had a more natural and effortless sexual connection to someone in my life, and it blinded me to a lot of things. And thank you for this article, I should have said that before. Do you know what these aspects could mean? ? Dejanira (female) conjunct Saturn (male) I use the term female, but it would be the same for either sex. 3) Angles in the houses & aspects. What does that mean? Ami, hello. Nessus conj the NN in the natal would be a person who would likely be abusive. Most potent are Eros-Venus, Eros-Ascendant, Eros-Psyche, and Eros-Mars links. These parts of you would flow well i.e may not play out in actual asbuse but would still be issues you both would deal with i.e abuse/victimhood imo I have not seen the trine in actual charts, dean. You are welcome to your opinion but I stand on what I wrote. Could you specify what you mean by abuse (subtle, verbal, violent etc.?)? Do you think the way it plays out ties into whatever our attitudes toward Eros/Lilith themes (erotic transformation, primal urges, etc) were to begin with?
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